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 : fatin izzati, 2 june, malaysian .
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Believe In Yourself 💕
written on Thursday, 30 June 2016 @ 20:23 ✈
Good morning everybody. Before I start my entry for today, i would like to borrow your eyes and ears for awhile so you can give a full attention and understand what I'm going to talk about. So, today I'm going to talk about a topic that people always worried about which is confident. Okay, let me tell you 'what is confident?' Confident is having a feeling or belief that you can do something well or succeed at something.
"Too many people overvalue what they are not and undervalue what they are"
-Malcolm S. Forbes
Many people who lack self-confidence because they are fear of something and they do not overcome the fear. Well to be honest i am the one of the who has low confidence level. From the very beginning, we see the harmful affects of low self-confidence on our decision-making process while the fear of rejection becomes an all too common presence in our lives. It causes many to adopt the values of the group and engage in otherwise undesired behavior. Even I feel very afraid to do something because I'm worried that people will judge me straight away.
Simply put, the need for love, belonging, and acceptance becomes stronger than the internal compass within us. And many unhealthy life choices begin to emerge.
Guys , stop comparing yourself with others. Think that you always do the best thing that others cant. It might help you to gain more confidence level. Reject the desire to compare yourself to others. When we compare ourselves to others, we always contrast the worst things we know about ourselves to the best things we know about others. The inevitable outcome always leaves us with feelings of inadequacy and despair. Become wiser. Tell yourself that you can’t possibly be making a fair comparison. And reject the idea altogether.
Next; Focus on the positives. Change your thinking. Focus less on the negatives and more on the positives. Stop dwelling on the negative messages of the past and begin centering yourself on the positive traits in your life today.
To be clear, the importance of self-confidence in our lives can not be overstated. It provides the motivation to pursue our passions. It provides the foundation to reject the claims of a consumerist culture. And it provides the incentive to live the life you’ve always wanted to live.
And always believe in yourself that you are the best people in this world. Just be yourself and never despair with God's blessings 💕 Everyone is born to be great, not to be a loser. Don't ever try to give up before you try something.
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Believe In Yourself 💕
written on Thursday, 30 June 2016 @ 20:23 ✈
Good morning everybody. Before I start my entry for today, i would like to borrow your eyes and ears for awhile so you can give a full attention and understand what I'm going to talk about. So, today I'm going to talk about a topic that people always worried about which is confident. Okay, let me tell you 'what is confident?' Confident is having a feeling or belief that you can do something well or succeed at something.
"Too many people overvalue what they are not and undervalue what they are"
-Malcolm S. Forbes
Many people who lack self-confidence because they are fear of something and they do not overcome the fear. Well to be honest i am the one of the who has low confidence level. From the very beginning, we see the harmful affects of low self-confidence on our decision-making process while the fear of rejection becomes an all too common presence in our lives. It causes many to adopt the values of the group and engage in otherwise undesired behavior. Even I feel very afraid to do something because I'm worried that people will judge me straight away.
Simply put, the need for love, belonging, and acceptance becomes stronger than the internal compass within us. And many unhealthy life choices begin to emerge.
Guys , stop comparing yourself with others. Think that you always do the best thing that others cant. It might help you to gain more confidence level. Reject the desire to compare yourself to others. When we compare ourselves to others, we always contrast the worst things we know about ourselves to the best things we know about others. The inevitable outcome always leaves us with feelings of inadequacy and despair. Become wiser. Tell yourself that you can’t possibly be making a fair comparison. And reject the idea altogether.
Next; Focus on the positives. Change your thinking. Focus less on the negatives and more on the positives. Stop dwelling on the negative messages of the past and begin centering yourself on the positive traits in your life today.
To be clear, the importance of self-confidence in our lives can not be overstated. It provides the motivation to pursue our passions. It provides the foundation to reject the claims of a consumerist culture. And it provides the incentive to live the life you’ve always wanted to live.
And always believe in yourself that you are the best people in this world. Just be yourself and never despair with God's blessings 💕 Everyone is born to be great, not to be a loser. Don't ever try to give up before you try something.
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we live under the same sky
“To put away aimlessness and weakness, and to begin to think with purpose, is to enter the ranks of those strong ones who only recognize failure as one of the pathways to attainment; who make all conditions serve them, and who think strongly, attempt fearlessly, and accomplish masterfully.”
- James Allen Quotes
Sometimes I wonder how people see me and what they think of me. It scares me a bit, honestly. I am sure though, that what they think of me,
what they think my life is, is a complete misperception. I have always tried to show myself as a carefree person, as someone who wont get bothered
because of public judgements. I am sure my friend and family think there is nothing going wrong in my life, that I do not worry enough, that
I am always happy. And I am sure they probably somewhat hate me for it because, lets admit it, there is nothing worse than seeing someone
who is life seems so perfect while yours is a complete mess. Truth is, I have become an expert at pretending. I think we are all experts
or at least we are getting there.
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